Self Love❤️

Do you love you? Do you love exactly how you are? If you had 3 wishes would you change things about yourself? Do you love you? If you don’t love yourself, how can you show love to others?

I had a class with some girls on a WhatsApp group, where we had a session on Self-esteem titled, ‘I am Beautiful.’ I thought it’ll be nice to share some of the things we learnt with all my readers❤️. (If you’d like to join the group or teach on the group, feel free to contact me through any of the means all the way down⬇️)


Here’s a few things from the class: (P.s it’s not my group, I was given the opportunity to teach on it by a friend)

18/05/2020

Gigi🌹: Self-esteem is an individual’s subjective evaluation of their own worth. Self-esteem encompasses beliefs about oneself (for example, “I am unloved”, “I am worthy”). Let’s take time to understand this definition. How do you view yourself as a person?
If you were someone else would you like you? Or you’d want to be a totally different person.

Few comments and interactions were made✔️

Gigi🌹: I wan’t you to know that you are either beautiful or as ugly as you believe you are. You alone can define your beauty. It’s not a power anyone can have over you, unless you give it to them. If you depend on people to tell you how beautiful you are, then your self esteem will change from high to low frequently. You need to understand that your value does not decrease based on someone’s inability to see how amazingly beautiful you are.

Gigi🌹: Quiet that voice of doubt inside you today and know and BELIEVE that;
You are good enough
You are smart
You are worthy of love and respect!
You are AMAZING just the way you are.

Few comments and interactions were made.✔️

Gigi🌹: I want you to embrace self love from today. Who knows what self love is?
Student A: Self love is the ability to cherish, respect and love oneself.
Student B: Despite flaws.
Gigi🌹: Despite flaws❤️
Student C: Or disabilities.
Gigi🌹: Thank you, Self love doesn’t require you to ignore your faults, but rather to refuse to use them as an excuse to dislike yourself!!
Gigi🌹: You would be a totally different person if you could change all those things you refer to as flaws. You wouldn’t be you again!

Few comments and interactions were made✔️

Gigi🌹: And know that loving yourself isn’t selfish, you deserve some love and respect too. Know Your Worth. You cannot love someone, until you know how to love yourself. How can you appreciate someone if you can’t do the same for yourself?

Gigi🌹: Don’t depend on people’s comments about you, to know who you are. Nobody can make you feel less or inferior about yourself without your consent. This means that it’s only if you listen to their words and views about you, that’s when it’ll affect you. Not everyone is going to like you, don’t listen to every single comment people make about you. Some actually call you ugly ’cause they actually think you’re more beautiful than them.

Few comments and interactions were made✔️

Gigi🌹: So don’t let people’s views be the bed rock of how you rate your beauty. Love Yourself!
Gigi🌹: Real beauty begins the minute you accept yourself. This is who you are! You’ve been criticising yourself and wishing you had this and that or you we’re taller, had certain attributes or skills,etc. Have you tried accepting who you are ’cause criticising yourself and feeling ashamed isn‘t really helping now, is it?

Student E: No😥

Student F: Not at all.

Student G: No..

Gigi🌹: Exactly, you have been criticising yourself for years and it hasn’t worked. Try approving yourself and see what happens.

Questions and Contributions✔️

Student H: You know I feel that the only one who can understand this topic better, is those who have gone through it and have recovered from it.
So my question is, Gigi did you at one stage lack self esteem? And how do you think one can recover from it?

Gigi🌹: I felt I wasn’t beautiful and had many flaws, trust me I did. But through support from God, my friends and myself, I was able to defeat it. You need to know that only if you believe it, nothing will change. I can be telling you story from now till tomorrow, but it’s still you that makes the move. I learnt to accept myself, ’cause I had been criticising myself and that truly didn’t change anything and I’ve come to accept who I am and the real me isn’t changing for anyone.

Student I: You only have one life to live. So why will you live this life in fear just because you think you are not perfect. There is more to life than hating who you are. Live, Learn, Love.

Student J: Always remember you are fearfully and wonderfully made😌❤️

Few interactions and comments were made✔️

Gigi🌹: Assignment
Post your picture on your status or anywhere people can view it and write beneath it, I AM BEAUTIFUL. ‘Cause you truly are as beautiful as you define yourself to be. Do this to prove you truly believe that you love yourself and not to get people’s comments. Even though I can’t see everyone’s status, just do this and let everyone see how beautiful you are.
Don’t be scared prove to yourself, and not me, that you actually love yourself. This isn’t selfish or being proud it’s SELF-LOVE.

Gigi🌹: Thank you all for your presence in the class. Till we meet again! I hope we all enjoyed the class and learnt something. Stay safe everyone!


For those that made it till the end, thank you for reading. I hope you learnt something and feel free to leave comments and share this post with others❤️. If you’d love to join the group, contact me🌚⬇️


AGAIN!! I plan on doing a Q/A session, so I’m open to any questions you have for me. Anything that’s on your mind, go ahead and ask away. You can send your questions to me through any of these:

IG: @gigi_morgan_

You could leave the question in the comment section.

E-mail: gigimorgan37@gmail.com

Or if you want to stay anonymous, you could leave your question on my Sarahah, leave questions for my Q/A session! 🔜


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20 thoughts on “Self Love❤️

  1. winneroyindamola 23rd May 2020 — 3:39 pm

    Self love is one thing that every human should have.. anyone that doesn’t have self love cannot show any type of love to anyone

    Liked by 1 person

      1. winneroyindamola 2nd Jun 2020 — 8:21 pm

        You are welcome

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  2. This is a beautiful write-up.
    Kill that self-deprecating humour. Love and accept your every unique feature.
    Well done!

    Liked by 1 person

  3. This is wonderful, I was feeling down but after reading this my self esteem has gone up , thank you ❣️

    Liked by 1 person

    1. I’m so happy to see this dear, I’m glad I could help❤️

      Like

  4. I really love this❤️❤️‼️

    Liked by 1 person

    1. Thank you so much dear, I’m glad you did💜

      Like

  5. Keep it up, Glory. This is insightful

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  6. Great work here.

    Keep it up.

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  7. Congratulations Gigi!
    Your articles are awesome and superb,
    I have nominated your blog for the Real Neat Blog Award.

    More about this nomination is at: https://kaylebsblog.wordpress.com/2020/06/01/real-neat-blog-award/

    Liked by 1 person

    1. Oh wow, thank you so much!❤️😊

      Liked by 1 person

      1. You are welcome dear, you truly deserve it, all the best to your blog

        Liked by 1 person

  8. I was just scrolling through your blog posts and came across this. It’s awesome! I actually have a similar post

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